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“Excellence is an art won by training and habituation. We do not act rightly because we have virtue or excellence, but we rather have those because we have acted rightly. We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act but a habit.”

– Will Durant, The Story of Philosophy (1926)

Love this short piece it fits well with the aristotelian idea that you should give because a Giver is the type of person you want to embody.

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When people are blind to this mode of giving, it also makes them worse at receiving it - if giving is always loss or sacrifice, then they don't want to accept the gift and cause that loss to the giver. They aren't able to conceive that giving the gift is its own reward, and thus refusing the gift is denying the reward to the giver.

Suggests that being good at receiving is just as important to finding connection as being good at giving.

(Inspired by my other comment, but felt like this deserved its own thread)

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