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Sejal J's avatar

Responsive! That's who I'd like to be more of!!! But but but I really felt this piece re. So one, i hardly care about pleasure and utility in my friendships and it's only as an ameture adult that I'm realising how important that may be. And two, sometimes you're just different people y'know, like maybe the then you would not have recognised his "value" as a teen. You were q different person back then and so was he. And so I guess experience and time also plays a huge role here.

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Jess's avatar

This was beautifully written, thank you! I love the notion of misreading people; I think it's such an important trap to be aware of.

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