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Johann's avatar

The part on “dancing with your cocoon” struck a chord and reminded me of Donella Meadows “Dancing with Systems” (https://thesystemsthinker.com/dancing-with-systems/):

“We can listen to what the system tells us, and discover how its properties and our values can work together to bring forth something much better than could ever be produced by our will alone. […] We can’t control systems or figure them out. But we can dance with them”

As for Alexander, I can only concur, and I would add that Alexander’s fifteen properties from “The Nature of Order” and the dancing with the cocoon are a great fit when thinking about our cocoons as systems. As I wrote a while ago (shameless plug, I know ☺️):

“I think that the 15 fundamental properties in itself are kind of a high-level pattern language — one that can be applied when we ‘dance with systems’”.

(from https://mycvs.org/2020/07/12/of-patterns-and-dancing-architecting-ecosystems-and-bureaucracies/)

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Spencer's avatar

Excellent… and ready for this series to be a book!

Two thoughts:

(1) An extension of the “you’re the sum of your 5 people” quote is that it increasingly applies to parasocial relationships. In your model, you could view this as the content that the “real” people in your life are curating. But when you spend enough time with the authors of that content — maybe especially in “living” formats — they themselves become part of your cocoon.

(2) A few excerpts in this reminded me of Christopher Alexander’s Timeless Way of Building. The aliveness of your gallery, and your cocoon, is dependent on the scaffolding and collection of alive patterns therein.

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